Training for couples
(as published in "Love It" magazine and "The Sun Online" November 2007, read the article below session information!)
Whether you are both submissive, both dominant, unsure of which role to play or simply looking to spice up your relationship I can teach you how to play sensually, safely and imaginatively.
You can visit me together or perhaps alone so your skills will be a welcome surprise for your loved one. I am more than comfortable with males and females.
By what I offer to teach I am not assuming you have no idea of sexuality or how to turn your partner on I am simply giving you options, ideas and solutions to areas you may or may not struggle with or wish to add spice to.
I can help you build your own
self-esteem and sexual confidence, desirable, his ultimate fantasy women
or perhaps help you with how to speak to your partner erotically, how
to start the scene, set the mood and make the first moves.
I will explain how to choose where you play and what effects different places have on the overall feeling of the scene, how to choose the lighting style to suit your needs, what sort of music to play, how the simplest things such as smell, colour and texture effect sexual arousal.
Dominance and submission is a huge subject and can become a very deep, psychological connection with those who play. I will initially either cover a brief instruction of the simple yet exciting areas of play or a more in depth tutorial of the subjects you request. It might help to take a look at my ideas list to get a feel for what is possible.
Remember BDSM does NOT have to be
BDSM is not perverted, used only by satanic weirdo's and is not something to be ashamed of needing!
It can be as simple as adding some spice to your sex life or as complicated as giving up your rights as a partner and submitting fully!
As you progress and become more comfortable and competent with your new found skills I can start showing you the other possibilities that we can bring into play. Perhaps add twists to the skills you have already learned with me, I can show you play that is a little more intense or lead on to specialised areas of play such as electric play and bondage.
Anyone who takes the time and effort
to learn how to play safely and effectively has my respect immediately.
BDSM play can be dangerous and you can hurt someone severely by accident so tuition before making mistakes is wise, honourable and admirable.